Hello everyone! Today, I want to focus on three reasons why you
can't organize your home. I will talk about each of these reasons
more in depth in later posts. Hopefully, I'll have a post dedicated
to each reason and how to get over these problems.
Everyone (or everyone in my mind) wants to have an organized home
where they can easily locate any item that they need in an instant.
Imagine how much time you waste looking for your keys, your clothes,
your shoes, and whatever else. I'm not sure about you, but I can
literally waste hours looking for just the necessities each and every
week. I know I'm not the only one. Are you wasting time looking for
things that should be easy to locate? If you experience this time
suck continue reading to see if any of these three problems matches
you.
Three Simple Reasons Why You Can't Organize Your Home
Simple Mistakes
Organizing is a skill that pretty much anyone can learn. This
skill is simple and can only get better overtime. It does take a lot
of thought, creativity, and strength of will but I guarantee you will
be a better person for it in the end. There are so many mistakes that
people make when they begin their organizing journey. Trust me, I've
made them and you probably will too, but that's okay. At least you're
giving it the old college try.
In a later post, I will go into more depth about these simple
mistakes but for now I will list off one or two that I've struggled
with in the past.
Organizing isn't any fun. True, it isn't fun, but it needs to be
done. I'm sure that you can think of a zillion other more fun things
to do with your time- I know I can! You probably have a television
show or a website that is silently calling out to you; so, you have
no drive to actually pick up and clean up even the smallest things. I
get around this time drain by listening to music or playing my
favorite television show while I do small cleaning tasks around the
house.
Another simple mistake I've made is that none of my stuff has a
home. My hairbrush, shoes, clothes, and whatever else just kind of
hangs out in limbo with no where else to go. When I went to grab an
item I was looking for it could be in one of a hundred locations and
I didn't know where to begin looking for them item. So, I was wasting
so much time looking in a number of places. Totally wasted my time.
It was ridiculous, and let me repeat total time drain.
Unrealistic Expectations
Everyone has at least some kind of unrealistic expectation about
their world, life, or self. Its really only human nature to want to
be better and do the best we can. I know that I have many unrealistic
expectations about myself that will probably never happen, but these
expectations help me to better myself in ways that I would never have
thought of.
So, maybe you're (for the most part) organized. You have broken
down and gotten rid of anything that was just clutter or duplicates.
If you need help with clearing away clutter check out my post about
Getting rid of clutter. Everything in your home has a place for the
most part, but you just can't seem to find enough storage to put
everything else. Maybe you've ran out of room or maybe your storage
systems just aren't working out.
Maybe you are in a transition point in your life; so, a permanent
storage system isn't reasonable. Maybe you're looking for a new place
or a new job. Whatever the reason, try to implement a temporary
system that will keep you on track and working smarter not harder.
I'll go into more detail about this problem and how to fix it next
week.
Psychological Reasons
Psychological reasons are possibly the worst reason why you can't
organize your house. These types of problems can be terribly difficult
to get over and even harder to spot. The first step is really
becoming away of the reason or reasons why you are psychologically sabotaging your organizing efforts.
Let's say you have come up with several organizing systems but you
never fully put them into good use. A small voice inside of your
craves for the unorganized, cluttered life even though you know you
want to be organized. Something inside of you just subconsciously
makes you sabotage anything that could possible better your living
situation.
Maybe you have a fear of failing at getting your home, life, or
whatever else organized. You know that an organized home is something
that you want but a little voice is telling you that it just can't be
done. You know that annoying little voice that always tries to sabotage you at every turn. Nothing you do is good enough for that
voice, and perhaps that terrible, little voice has you convinced
that it is just trying to help you out.
Now, there are many reasons for each of these problems, and as I
said before I will delve into these problems later on. For now, it is
important to remember that a lot of people have a mix of these three
types of problems and there are always ways to fix these problems. If
you need help breaking through the mold and getting rid of these
problems, feel free to email me and I'll do my best to help you get
your home organized!
Does one of these problems match your reasons why you can't
organize your house? Do you have any other problems that are not
listed here? Feel free to leave any comments, questions, or personal
stories in the comment section below!